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When you first start a business, you’re kind of just figuring things out as you go.
You get your first inquiry and realize you probably need some sort of process for that. You book your first client and suddenly need a contract, an invoice, a way to onboard them, and somewhere to keep track of everything. Then you run into something you didn’t anticipate, so you adjust. Something takes way longer than you thought it would, so you find a workaround. You discover a new tool that promises to solve all of your problems, so obviously you sign up for that. And slowly, you piece together the behind-the-scenes of your business based on what you need at that moment.
Which makes complete sense. When you’re just starting out, you don’t necessarily know what your business is going to need six months from now, let alone three or five years from now. You’re learning what works, what doesn’t, what your clients need, how you like to work, and approximately a million other things…all while trying to actually run the business.
For a while, a lot of those pieced-together processes work fine. (I mean, you don’t really know much different, right?)
Besides, when you only have a handful of clients, it’s pretty easy to remember who still owes you a questionnaire or who you need to follow up with. Manually sending the same onboarding email isn’t that annoying when you’re only doing it once or twice a month. And if your process involves a weird workaround or an extra five steps that probably don’t need to be there, it doesn’t really matter because you know how it works.
But then your business grows, and all of those little “this works for now” solutions are suddenly being asked to support a business that looks veryyy different than the one you originally created them for.
You now have more clients, more projects, more emails, more tools, more information to keep track of, and just a lot more moving pieces. That five-minute manual task is now happening five times a week. The information you used to be able to keep in your head is scattered across approximately 3 notebooks, a planner, a multitude of sticky notes, and 27 tabs. You’re spending more and more of your time remembering, following up, checking on things, answering questions, and filling in the gaps because you’re the person who knows how everything is supposed to work.
And even though things might not feel broken — clients are happy, work is getting done, and things are moving forward — you’re exhausted.
Because things are only working because you’re doing a whole lot of work to keep it working. That’s usually the point where I think it’s worth taking a closer look at your business systems. Not because you need to automate every last thing, build a giant team, or create a 56-page SOP for every process in your business. And definitely not because there’s one “right” way your backend is supposed to look. (Can we just get over that belief already?!)
It’s simply because the systems that supported one version of your business might not be the systems that support where you’re going next. (Actually, I can almost guarantee you they won’t be.)
After years of working alongside founders in all different stages of business, I’ve seen this play out time and time again. The specifics might look different from business to business, but when something behind the scenes feels complicated, more manual, or more dependent on the founder than it probably needs to be, there are five systems I almost always like to look at first.
Because these are the systems that touch so much of how your business actually runs — from how someone finds and hires you, to the experience they have once they do, to how the work gets done, and everything happening behind the scenes to keep it all moving.
Your client acquisition system includes everything that happens between someone discovering your business and officially becoming a paying client. Depending on your business, that could include social media, SEO, referrals, email marketing, inquiry forms, discovery calls, follow-ups, proposals, contracts, invoices, and everything in between that connects them.
You might already have most of those things in place, but the better question is whether they actually work together.
If every inquiry requires you to remember what to send next, you’re rewriting the same emails each time, leads regularly fall through the cracks, or someone has to dig through your Instagram profile to figure out how the heck they can actually work with you, there’s probably an opportunity to make your client acquisition process easier.
A good client acquisition system isn’t about automating the relationship out of your sales process. (Afterall, they want to work with you for a reason, not your AI agent). It’s about creating a clear, repeatable path for the right people to discover what you do, decide whether it’s right for them, and take the next step without requiring you to reinvent that path every time.
They signed the contract, paid the invoice, and everyone is excited. (Yay! 🎉) But now what?
Your client onboarding system bridges the gap between someone officially becoming a client and actually beginning the project. It might include contracts and invoices, questionnaires, scheduling, a welcome guide, communication expectations, kickoff calls, client portals, and any pre-work you need before you can actually start the work.
This is one of my favorite systems to look at because improving it can create a ripple effect on both sides of the client relationship. Your client knows exactly what’s happening, what you need from them, and what they can expect next. Meanwhile, you’re not manually sending six different emails, hunting down missing information, or answering the same questions you’ve already answered for your last five clients.
That doesn’t mean every interaction needs to become an automated email either. Maybe a personalized welcome email, voice note, or handwritten card is an important part of the experience you want to create. Your system should make it easier to be intentional about where your personal touch matters and where a repeatable process can do some of the heavy lifting for you.
Getting a client through the door is one thing. Getting their project from “we’re doing this!” to “it’s done!” is a whooole other thing.
Your project management system is what keeps the actual work moving. It can include timelines, milestones, tasks, responsibilities, client approvals, communication, recurring check-ins, deliverables, and a way to quickly understand where every active project currently stands.
But it’s important to note that having project management software does not automatically mean you have a project management system.
You can pay for Asana every month (although, tbh, I just use the free version) and still keep every important deadline in your brain. You can have a beautifully color-coded ClickUp workspace and still spend Monday mornings trying to figure out what everyone is supposed to be doing. The tool only works when there’s a thoughtful process behind it.
A strong project management system should make it relatively easy to answer four questions:
If answering those questions requires reconstructing a project from emails, Slack messages, sticky notes, and whatever you vaguely remember talking about on last Tuesday’s call, this is probably a system worth looking at.
And then there are all the things required to run the business itself.
Your business operations systems can include invoicing and finances, capacity planning, file organization, recurring administrative tasks, SOPs and documentation, business metrics, planning, your tech stack, and the processes happening behind the scenes that aren’t necessarily tied to one specific client.
This is also where a lot of founder dependency typically tends to hide.
Maybe you’re the only person who knows where everything lives. You’re the one who remembers what needs to happen at the beginning of every month. You know how all the tools connect, what happens when something goes wrong, and the exact sequence of steps required to complete recurring tasks because you’ve done them approximately one million and one times.
Technically, you have a process. The problem is that you might still be the system holding the entire thing together. Which might work perfectly fine for where your business is today. But as your business continues to grow, it’s worth looking at which parts truly benefit from your involvement and which ones are simply dependent on you because they’ve “always been done that way.”
Don’t get me wrong: the goal isn’t to build a business that doesn’t need you. It’s to build one that doesn’t unnecessarily depend on you for everything.
Client offboarding might be one of the most overlooked business systems for service providers.
We spend so much time thinking about how to attract a client, get them through the door, and create a great experience while we’re working together. Then the project wraps and suddenly it’s basically, “Okay, bye! Hope you liked it!”
The end of your project is still part of the client experience. A thoughtful client offboarding system might include final deliverables, a wrap-up call, feedback and testimonial requests, next-step recommendations, referral information, additional ways to work together, follow-up communication, or a thoughtful thank-you note.
Having a repeatable offboarding process helps the project feel intentionally complete rather than like the communication just fizzled out. (I mean, you wouldn’t want that in a romantic relationship, why should it be any different in a professional one?) And offboarding process also gives you a natural opportunity to collect feedback, capture testimonials, encourage referrals, introduce relevant next steps, and maintain the relationships you worked so hard to build in the first place.
But that doesn’t mean you need to turn the end of every project into an elaborate 14-step sequence eitehr. You just want to be as intentional about how someone leaves your client experience as you were about how they entered it.
If you’ve made it this far and now have approximately 37 things running through your head that you need to fix, please don’t close this blog and immediately start rebuilding your entire backend. YOU DO NOT NEED TO FIX ALL OF THESE SYSTEMS AT ONCE.
Instead, look at your business as it’s currently operating. Where are you experiencing the most unnecessary work, friction, or mental load?
Maybe you’re spending 30 minutes manually onboarding every new client when most of the process could happen automatically. Maybe every project requires you to recreate the same tasks from scratch. Maybe your offboarding process doesn’t really exist, so you’re missing opportunities to collect feedback and testimonials. Or maybe there’s a recurring process you’ve been meaning to document for six months because you know someone else could eventually take it over.
Start with one of those!
I’m a big fan of looking for the ripple effect. Saving 30 minutes once is nice, but saving 30 minutes every single week gives you back 26 hours over the course of a year. Improving one onboarding process doesn’t make one client experience better; it has the potential to improve every client experience that comes after it.
The best system to address first isn’t necessarily the one some allegedly seven-figure business coach on Instagram says you absolutely must have. It’s going to be the one that solves an actual problem in your business and makes the way you work a little better.
Please don’t begin with software, automation, or plugging Claude into everything. It’s going to be much more impactful if you start by paying attention to what you already do repeatedly and where the current process creates friction.
Sometimes we have a tendency to be too close to things in our business. Instead, zoom out. (Or if you struggle with that, ask a friend to pretend they’re a potential client). Look at what happens from the moment someone discovers your business through the moment they finish working with you, along with what has to happen internally to keep everything running. Notice what you repeatedly recreate, what you have to remember manually, where information gets lost, what clients frequently ask about, and what consistently takes longer than it feels like it should.
From there, you can decide whether the solution is to eliminate, simplify, automate, delegate, or create a more consistent process around it. Because sometimes you will need a new tool or an automation or another person. But sometimes you just need to stop doing something in the most complicated way humanly possible.
Your systems should be built around the business you’re actually running—not around someone else’s idea of what a “proper” business backend is supposed to look like.
If this post has you wondering where your own backend could use a little attention, I created a free resource to help you figure that out.
Build the Backend: The 5 Systems Every Female Founder Needs walks you through the five areas we covered here — Client Acquisition, Onboarding, Project Management, Operations, and Offboarding — so you can take a closer look at what you already have, what might be missing, and where a better system could make running your business a whole lot easier.
But if you’ve ready this and already know exactly what needs fixing and now you’re asking yourself, “Great…now when am I supposed to actually build this?” my Business Intensives are designed for exactly that. We’ll figure out the right solution for your business and then actually get it built and implemented, so one more “I really need to do that” can become “it’s (finally) done!”

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